Whether you’re a parent or an educator, your goal is to meet the emotional, physical, and educational needs of each student, and that requires good communication between everyone that’s involved. However, there are times when challenges will require additional support to help parents and schools find common ground to meet the educational needs of the student. When you need to resolve a dispute, manage complex meetings, or improve the relationship with the school team, the answer may just be special education mediation. 

Conflict Resolution Services provides Special Education mediation free of charge for Antrim, Benzie, Grand Traverse, Leelanau, Missaukee, and Wexford counties’ schools and residents through the Special Education Mediation Program. These services are federally funded through the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and paid for by a grant from the Michigan Office of Special Education.

What are Special Education Mediation Services? 

Special Education Mediation Services (SEMS) are an effective way to help support cooperation and teamwork between those who are directly involved in the students’ education and well-being. The overall goal — to improve educational outcomes — involves using a neutral third-party, specially trained mediator to help parents and educators collaborate to find a mutually agreeable, beneficial solution. 

Mediation is non-confrontational and a way of working together to find a solution, rather than working against each other. Both sides have an opportunity to share their view on the situation, contribute ideas, and provide feedback in a confidential setting. Not only does this help to resolve issues quickly and avoid lengthy and costly court proceedings, but it keeps the focus on what’s important — positive outcomes for the child. 

Benefits of Special Education Mediation Services

When faced with a challenge regarding your child’s educational services and outcomes, special education mediation services can help in a variety of ways.

Resolve disagreements

Both educators and parents are busy and under a lot of pressure to handle a wide range of complex, often difficult special education issues, and it can understandably get emotional. A trained special education mediator can provide a safe, neutral environment to guide the conversation and ensure all parties have equal opportunity to express their point of view. They also keep everyone on topic, and help identify and evaluate options to resolve the dispute and create a legally enforceable agreement regarding the solution. 

Mediation results in a 70-80% agreement rate, and the speed of mediation as opposed to the courts means students benefit from those solutions in a more timely fashion without the constraints of state complaint and due process timelines. This means both more time and money can be spent on educating — which is the ultimate goal. 

Manage complex meetings

Planning the educational services for students often requires a variety of meetings, whether that’s about IEP, IFSP, BIP, MET, MDR or planning a conference. If any of the participants are uneasy about a meeting or the relationship between caregivers and educators is strained in any way, participants can request a neutral, third-party mediator to facilitate the meeting process. 

The facilitator can create an agenda based on the participant’s input, and they’re trained to keep the conversation on track and on topic, centered on the needs of the student, while helping to negotiate disagreements without taking sides. 

Training to improve communication and relationships

Mediation services can greatly help to improve communication between parents and educators, but it’s also important to learn collaborative communication and dispute resolution techniques so that all parties can more effectively make decisions going forward — and hopefully avoid future disagreements.

Skills like active listening, empathy, and framing issues in a neutral fashion can help to promote collaboration, but they’re not always the easiest skills to understand or implement. SEMS offers a variety of workshops that can be adapted to the unique needs of your situation, including: 

• Dispute Resolution Options in Special Education 
• Conflict Resolution and Communication in Special Education 
• Discipline for Students with Disabilities 
• Effective IEP Team Meeting Participation Techniques 
• How to Develop Trusting Relationships Between Families and Schools 
• How to Communicate with the Most Challenging Personalities 

SEMS provides the materials and trainers at no cost to organizations that work with special education students. The only thing the hosting organization has to do is arrange the location, promotion, registration, and provide refreshments. 

Interested in Special Education Mediation Services? 

The use of these no-cost services allows parents and educators to spend less time, energy, and money on resolving disagreements and more time focused on positive educational outcomes and the growth of the students. 

For more information, please call 833-KIDS 1ST or 833-543-7178 or visit mikids1st.org. Requests for services are processed through the SEMS central office with local service delivery coordinated by Conflict Resolution Services.